tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1056049297418762038.post8153977369690928528..comments2023-10-19T08:46:10.886-04:00Comments on Stay at Home Mom of Four and NO MORE...: A Fine LineGinny Gillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12437741435574630004noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1056049297418762038.post-47370878739653464672008-11-10T18:38:00.000-05:002008-11-10T18:38:00.000-05:00Keep up the good work.Keep up the good work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1056049297418762038.post-76368832099515787692007-11-14T20:49:00.000-05:002007-11-14T20:49:00.000-05:00ok, this breaks my heart. i have no idea what i'd ...ok, this breaks my heart. i have no idea what i'd do when my little boy is in the same position, but here's what i think. <BR/>maybe you should tell him that you think something's going on on the bus that's making him not want to ride. give him a chance to tell you what it is - offer up scenerios (is someone mean? did something happen that scared you? etc ...). if he doesn't open up, accept that and let him know he can talk to you when he's ready and ask you for help if he needs it - that you'll be there no matter what. then drop it and drop him off at the bus stop in a cheerful confident way (as if to say, hey kiddo i trust that it isn't something you need help with so if you say you're ok, i'm ok too). eventually he'll either work it out or feel like he needs to come to one of you for help.<BR/>i think that way he'll learn that he can trust you to be there and he'll also learn to trust himself. <BR/>easier said than done, right?<BR/>let me know how it goes???<BR/>xoxox<BR/>catAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com